Book Testimonials

The books and the associated processes are totally awe inspiring and mind-blowing. I never realized just how many negative belief systems I was running in my life and how I was continually creating my own pain, chaos and suffering. Without the help and assistance I have received I never would have been able to get to where I am right now. Melanie's work is fully committed to help people achieve their true potential. Breaking The Chains of Painful Love has helped me realize that I am a beautiful individual who deserves love, affection and compassion. I have been able to grow past my co-dependence and stop letting other people damage and abuse me. I have let go of a daily chemical addiction that plagued me for the greatest part of my life. I have learnt how to trust life and other people and let go of my suspicious defense mechanisms. Most importnatly I have learnt how to trust myself. As a result I have drawn miraculous occurrences and amazingly supportive and loving people into my world. My relationship with myself has become healthier than I could possible imagine, and I am so grateful that I have connected with my children so lovingly as a result of the tools I have learnt. For the first time in my entire life I have found and embraced the real me and know how to create the life I deserve. I had tried numerous counselors and avenues for lengthy periods and never experienced results anything like this. All of this happened in the short space of four weeks after applying the processes in the book. I found the courage to completely let go of a destructive relationship, and started to work on myself. It is now many months later, and the empowerment I gained has become a part of my everyday life. After not working for eighteen years I studied and have just secured the job of my dreams, and now know how to create the reality of my life. The books are on my bedside table and to me they are a 'bible' for my life. If I catch myself slipping I go back to my favourite sections and processes. I now love who I am, love my life fully and enjoy the magic of watching it unfold before my eyes. I have no fear of being single and know in every ounce of my being that a beautiful man will one day share the wholeness of who I am. The once 'broken me' glows brightly as a durable and lasting reality. I cannot recommend the knowledge Melanie has conveyed enough. I sincerely hope Melanie’s work gains the world-wide exposure it deserves and that other people who were as lost as me reach out and seek this help.
   ~ Fiona E.

 

Melanie's book Breaking The Chains of Painful Love has helped me with the biggest decision of my life - to end my 24 year relationship with my husband. Upon reading this enjoyable and easy to read book something clicked for me that made this decision so clear for me that I knew this was the right thing for me to do. Even though it is difficult to end and untangle our long life together, the clarity I have received from reading this book has shown me that if your relationship is not meeting your needs then what less than beliefs do you have running about your deservibility and self worth? I certainly intend to address this before launching into my next relationship!
   ~ Lauren B

 

I came out of the black hole I have been in for most of my life. I had been blaming a bad marriage with a bad man for my depression, my reclusiveness and just my general behaviour in continuing to attract the same sort of people into my life. My life is now “my life” rather than just an existence, which it barely was previously. I had been on anti-depressants on and off for 10 years since my marriage ended and also seeing Psychologists for a long period of time. This always took the edge off so I could go to work each day, but that was all. I still had to face the weekends and evenings alone, where I would have a couple of drinks and just go to bed so I didn’t have to think. As a result of applying the knowledge and the processes of Breaking The Chains of Painful Love I am off anti-depressants, no longer seeing a Psychologist, and work diligently on the processes to change my belief systems. I have so much to be thankful for, and I can’t believe I am saying that. I thought this victimhood was my lot in life. It’s so liberating to be in this place and finally being free. Melanie is an absolute inspiration. I cannot express the gratitude I feel toward her and the service and care she is providing to so many people in need. Thanks to finding out how to heal myself from the inside out and recreate my belief sytsems and patterns, I have met the most beautiful man in the most miraculous way. The connection and synergy of this union happened naturally and effortlessly from day one. We have now been together for four months and the relationship has never even looked like becoming distrustful or abusive. This man of integrity and sincerity totally reflects the love and the support I learnt how to embrace within myself. In the past I would never have believed that a healthy interdependent love relationship at this level was possible for me. In a few months I transcended crippling depression to a life of wonder. I am still pincing myself!
   ~ Donna J

 

Melanie is more than just a spiritual healer, she cares about the people she assists and wants to see them happy and living in their truth. I have experienced personal sessions with her and reaped the rich rewards. I have learned to recognise and deal with my past. Since applying the processes of Breaking The Chains of Painful Love I have changed negative belief systems into positive ones, faced my fears instead of running from them and I have learnt to care for and honour myself on all levels. It truly has been a life changing experience that I will be forever grateful for. I found the processes liberated me in a way that years of counselling had never touched. The most astounding changes have occurred in my life that I never thought possible. Some of these have been so profound and sudden that it has totally freaked me out! Things that I have battled with for years have fallen miraculously into place, in some cases within hours of treating these issues metaphysically. I have discovered the incredible power we all have when we work with ourselves and the laws of life. I would recommend Breaking The Chains of Painful Love to anyone who wishes to change their life beyond description in a very short amount of time. After suffering highly abusive relationships for all of my adult life, I have now been proposed to by a man who is solid, loving, supportive, gentle and wonderful with my children. I know I manifested this relationship from within myself. This honest and trustworthy man treats we with the utmost respect, love and care. I deserve this level of love and I am thrilled and honoured to receive it!
   ~ Amanda E

 

I feel blessed and honored to have been able to work through the processes of Breaking The Chains Of Painful Love. The personal growth and results have been astounding. After many years of soul searching and doing the inner work on myself, I have still struggled to find true love, or any love for that matter. I felt like the door had been closed on me, and this resulted in feelings of despair and helplessness. I began to wonder what was wrong with me. When I heard about this knowledge and the results it was creating I jumped at the chance to apply the processes, because I was ready to overcome this obstacle at any cost. Through the Breaking The Chains of Painful Love processes I was made aware of a long-held, subconscious belief pattern that had caused my heart to be closed off to love. I discovered that the wounds were very deep, despite the fact that consciously I was feeling healthy, happy and abundant. This process brought this truth to the light, something that had eluded me before now. Initially, upon reflecting on the loving affirmation (part of the 11x11 process), I felt nothing, not one spark in my heart centre. Having no feeling or reaction to this was alarming to me, as outwardly my loving energy flows feely to others, but clearly I had no love for self. This inspired me to commit completely to the daily practice; I was determined to overcome this and love myself wholly. I have now concluded this part of the process and am feeling amazing. My heart centre is open, and I am now starting to attract male attention. I am feeling empowered and confident around the opposite sex. It was so worth pushing through those painful barriers and looking at myself objectively, without judgment. I recommend Breaking The Chains Of Painful Love to anyone who wishes to experience Divine Love and success in loving relationships.
   ~ Narelle Clauscen

 

I have found the insights in Breaking The Chains of Painful Love incredible. It has brought forth so many issues that I had hidden that I never knew existed. This has been a very revealing journey and I have benefitted enormously from this insight. I am so much more at peace with myself and I am now accepting myself as a lovely and honourable person. Many thanks Melanie. Love and light always.
   ~ Dianne M

 

I truly do have an understanding of "ego". Along with the power of forgiving and knowing when you have reached that point. I discovered my ego through watching oprah and Im reading A New Earth. I have a hard time to understand the author. Yet when I looked into your books, it clicked right away. I will continue to invest in your books as the positive energy I have when reading them is unreal. I truly understand my ego and relize that this process is a life-stlye change that ends when its ready to end. No magic bullet. Once again thanks.
   ~ Alice A.